Tag: Psychoeducation

  • When Coping Turns into Autopilot: The Four Stages of Competency in Relationships and Mental Health

    When Coping Turns into Autopilot: The Four Stages of Competency in Relationships and Mental Health

    Most of us have experienced the four stages of competency without ever knowing there was a name for them. We tend to notice them most clearly when something has gone wrong, or when life has tapped us on the shoulder and said, “You might want to pay attention again.” Learning…

  • Overwhelm and Choice

    Overwhelm and Choice

    One of the things I’ve learned, both in life and in the counselling room, is that when people are overwhelmed, choice can feel like a burden rather than a gift. Clients often arrive feeling stuck in their lives, their work, or their relationships, carrying a sense that something isn’t right…

  • The Importance of Psychoeducation in Therapy

    The Importance of Psychoeducation in Therapy

    In therapy, it’s very easy for all of us to become focused on the symptom. After many years working with individuals and couples in counselling, and before that in policing and high-pressure organisational environments, I’ve seen this pattern repeat itself across settings and presentations. The panic attack. The anger outburst.…